Psychology vs technology

This means  that we all are in the same game of life . But the level of game is change for everyone as per there life condition but the thing is we all are in the same hell of problem but it will different to everyone we cannot compare our problems to others because the limitations and conditions are change for every problem . People always blame to god that why they are in the problem and others are happy but the thing is others are also thinking the same , let take a example to describe this topic more clearly there are two house one is a middle class family house and the other house is a billinary family or a very rich family having all the things in ther house in both the house there is a kid of same age but the condition are different for both of them , middle class family kid boy always thik that the billinary family kid is so lucky he has ha big house so many toys to play and many other things but on other side billinary family kid also feels sad because when he see other kids are play together in a park but he is not allowed to play with them due to family statues we have so many toys in his room but no one whom with he can spend time or play this all shows that we all are in the hell of problem but the conditions and problem will be different we have to learn to accept the conditions and problem without complaining and do work to over came of it
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This is the common meaning of the mind but the mind is very interesting element in a person body , because this is only a single element in a person body which is very difficult to control by a person . Our mind works 24×7 and now can you imagine that there is an element in our body which is uncontrolable , and we all knew that the thing which is uncontrolable will create problem one day.
Now  by taking a example of smart phone app we will try to understand that how we can control our mind with different thoughts. Nowadays we all have a smart phone in our hand and we all use different type of apps in single time , that what will happen ? Commonly it will stop working or hanged . Now to get phone again workable we have to restart our phone or have to close apps one by one , there is one thing more in our smart phone some time unwanted files comes in our phone automatically which is also known as junk fills whick makes our phone working speed slow , but here are features which can able to clean junk files and again your phone work nicely . Now compareing samrt phone to our mind . Mind have also the same problem but the thing is no direct solution to solve these problem like smart phone. As in smart phone the number of apps open in it is controlable and countable by us but in the case of mind number of thoughts comes in a same time which are not controlable and not countable , if we meet a person randomly which is not in your contact till last 5 years than also your mind is able to get the thoughts of which you spend with him in past 5 years before this shows that we are noy able to close our thoughts, the main problem of being so many thoughts in our mind is that , they will not make you able to focus on a single topic.

The solution of this problem is very simple and we all know this very well, doing meditation is the best solution for this close your eyes and focus on the sound of your breath , because the sound of breathing is never be good or bad in listening it is unique sound which make us feel very relaxed and make us able to focus on a single topic easily.

Now coming on second problem of junk files in smart phones but for mind junk files are the sad thoughts which makes us feel tensed. The main resion of being sad thoughts in our mind is "expectation". At the time when we want to control someones other mind as we think , the time we do this the problem starts , we all know that we all have a independent mind , so than why we try to control a independent mind , why we expect form other to do same as we think . Let suppose you find a puppy on a roadside and you decided to take care of it , till now it fine but the time you think you are the master of this puppy that now you are going on a wrong path because puppy has also his own independent mind and you can't expect things from him because after that the happy and sad moment of this puppy while be the same for you also because to will get attached to him . So the solution of being also happy we have to stop doing expectation from others.
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This is all about the meaning of depression. Now let's come in deep on this topic. It's a time period when we feel very low we dont want to face anyone . In this time our mind thinks only negative thought all the failures of our life and getting that in all the failures I am only the responsible, but reality was not that because the thinking which are coming in our mind is only the mirror reflection of our society in which we are surrounded . So now not going so long in this discussion let's come on the main topic of this blog that how society is responsible for a person getting in the depression and how we can able to neglect the society and be a success in life.

Now for making this blog mor interesting and understandable I am going to take a example and by relateing every thing of example to our life. Now suppose we are in a cricket field you are a batsmen and hole crowd (audience) is the society .

Now the game start and your life also start same like this game . The main thing of this game is there is no fieldrs no wicket and no wicketkeeper also. So it means that no one have a power to get you out until ot unless you run away from the field . Same thing is in life also it's our life and no one have a power to make us out in our life until we not get depressed . Now there is blower infront of you which is related to your life and ball is the chance which life gives you. Now the hole crowd is cheering for you because this is start of your life and the blower is ready with his first ball and throw towards you but you missed it the first chance of your life you missed but the thing is life not ends. Crowd is now also cheering for you because they think you can do well in next ball this all happen till the third ball blower throw towards you and you missed
up all the three ball or all the three chance of life but now the 50% of crowd started disparageing but still 50%of crowd is cheering for you which will able to make you stand there . Now again you missed up the fourth ball also, now there are only one fourth of crowd remains which are still cheering for you this one fourth people are those which are really close to you in your life which make able to stand in field but the 75% of crowd is disparageing and the effect of disparageing is , you will start feeling low now this is the starting of depression . Now you again missed the 5th ball or the 5th chance of the life now the hole crowd has started disparageing you . Now this is the peak time in which you have to motivates your self because still now the life has not ended the sixth ball of the game is still remains but the week people feel depressed at that moment and run out form the field without faceing his last chance and get depressed for the hole life but strong people motivet himself and always stand till the last .Now the baller is standing with is last ball , but the thing is this time you have faced five balls before that now you are able to understand how ball is coming very easily because you are experienced now by faceing the starting five balls you know how the bitch is behaveing and the last ball comes now you are able to see ball very easily were the ball is coming you come infrant and hitting the ball very strongly the ball and the ball is going high and high and this time it is a big "SIX"

Now what the hole crowd which is disparageing now started again cheering with a more loud sound . This all shows that it's our life and only we have to face all the up and down till the last chance of the life without being depressed by the disparage of society because society disparageing is not permanent thing it can be changed with the next chance you played .......!
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